Just because organization is not a personality trait doesn't mean
that psychology is not involved. In fact, bringing order to your inner
world or private world is much harder. If it's harder, why bother?
BECAUSE YOUR EXTERNAL WORLD IS A MIRROR OF YOUR INTERNAL WORLD. (Yes, I
wrote in all caps because I'm yelling it. I won't yell often, but this
is important.) You can't really make a lasting change to your external
world without making a lasting change to your internal world. Thus, we
will work to create order from the outside in AND the inside out. Again,
why bother? Disorder does not create growth. Disorder can give you a
stale, stagnant life. I am not in the business of encouraging stale,
stagnant lives, and I don't suppose that's why you signed up for this
course. Once you create order, you can start down the path to achieve
many other things.
So now that you
know about the hard part, let's start with the easy part (wheh!). Think
of something that you could do to create some small bit of order in
your external world in the next 5 minutes. Something tangible that you
will be able to see a difference when it's done. Some ideas:
- Clean out your e-mail inbox
- Make an appointment for something that needs to get done, and put it on your calendar
- File a few things
- Pay a few bills (why aren't they auto-withdrawal?)
- Hang up a few things
- Wash something
WAIT! Do you have something in mind to do? No fair
spending your whole 5 minutes thinking about what to do. You are
probably already good at that, which is why you are in disorder to begin
with. You think about it so long that you never take action. One of my
friends would say that you are a stew-er, not a do-er. Be a do-er. Are you ready? Now here's the good news: you only need to spend 5 minutes, not a minute more (at least today). Go here and set the big stopwatch to count down from 5 minutes. When the alarm goes off, you get to stop. Seriously, do something to create order, and then come back to this blog. I'm fine, I'll wait for you here. (5 minutes later)
So there's your first tip: set an alarm, and give yourself
permission to stop cleaning/organizing/creating order when the alarm
goes off. Chances are, you often won't want to stop, but if you do, at
least you did more than if you'd never started. How
did it go? What did you do? Did you create order for more than 5
minutes? How did you feel about doing it when I might not ever find out
whether you did it? What does your resistance or compliance say about
your sense of self control?
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